Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Not Wanted

This is kind of a depressing blog, but I want to know....do you ever feel like you're not wanted? The past two days comments have been made that make me feel like I'm not wanted, I'm not welcome. It stems from a decision I made over a month ago. I do not regret that decision, yet I'm made to feel like I'm the bad guy and I'm not welcome to join in some family events. If I'm not welcome, that's fine, but others will suffer for it, too. Thank you for letting me vent, although, right now, I'm not feeling any better. I'm almost wishing the holiday season were already over with so I could get on with my life and not have to deal with these people that I try to keep happy.


Missy's Blog said...

Bonnie ... I'm sorry comments from someone has made you feel that way.

I believe I'm aware of the situation you are referring to and I would hope those people would understand the "why" it happened.

Please know if we were there we would LOVE to spend Christmas with you and your family.

PEA said...

Believe me, I have indeed felt this way as well because of decisions I've made but I've learned that you just can't please everyone, someone will always have something to say. Just do what YOU think is best and the rest will just have to accept it. Sending you big hugs across the miles. xoxo